Since each person has different preferences as to relations with the opposite sex, I decided to broach the subject. Some like sticks fall and do not want to hear about a relationship they want to have another trophy while others want from women something more serious - I mean relationship. For the latter, who stubbornly insist on finding someone with whom they could connect to any emotional bond I have some advice. I took on the subject which I must admit is a tough one for me. With a clear conscience I have to admit that in the past I have had many relationships that ended up even though I was not quite what I wanted. But I think that these mistakes that I made something I learned and I can now give you this knowledge. In my life I also had a number of compounds which according. I was Ok- I mean make it look like I wanted. Also, I experienced and bounce and he threw away someone's feelings. In this article you can read about how to keep the girl with her. You'll see what to do to keep your relationship.
How to pick up a woman you can read the lessons and articles. Other users on blogs too much about it mention. I'll tell you the old one! Maintaining the relationship is much more difficult than undermine girls. Even sleep through the cane can be easier than maintaining a relationship. The same pickup to learn it for agile boy in a matter of weeks. When it comes to relationships or even other long relationships with a woman it is no longer so easily.
RULES For her and for you.
When the situation with a woman tends to the need to make a very important thing. Namely to establish rules. I like to speak of the beginning of a woman is what I like and remember also about things I do not like. I tell the woman: "If you were to tell me about the 3 most important rules you by. You are the most important in relation to what are they to be chosen?" The girls usually talk about love and other trivialities. To this I say. "You're wrong. Honesty trust and respect - the most important principles that are the foundation of every successful relationship," I'm also talking about the fact that if these principles are not in a relationship then it does not make sense.
When I see that our relationships take the form of "walking together" begin with it serious conversation and tells her so: "I just want a sincere relationship based on respect and trust. I want to compound without games and manipulation, whether you're in my position to give such a relationship? " If a girl says she does not know ... I tell her I do not know if I understand it but I should know what he wants, otherwise I tell her so far as I know she knows what she wants. He gets up and leaving. If the girl, however, will tell you that it is able to give you such a relationship is a reward it, and now I have an argument in his pocket, which is always on my side when she does something wrong.
And now the rules for you.
Remember that you're the most important person in a relationship, remember that you can be dominant. Keep in mind that it is you "run" it. Know also that when you're exaggerating controlling her go out on a psychopathic tyrant. You must be aware of the fact that woman also has his life and wants to have a little slack. It is the boundary between controlling and tyranny.
GAME MANIPULATION sulks and control over
You need to know about the women you routinely bomb tests. You will check whether these rules which say you are actually observed. Besides, they want to check if you are not one of the many guys who is a wimp and gives each sweep. Women do not want cunt. They are want a strong man who will be dominant and resistant to her curves games. This is what I wrote in the rules is great for this to have control over a woman. Control is very important !!! When a girl is doing you some plays and sulks should ignore it and never (!) Not to get caught up in it. The worst are the guys who apologize to women under their sigh, women such hate and consider it a bad boyfriend material. However, when the woman too much overdoing with their manipulations have to say it clearly. "Meet me we need to talk seriously and it is not a conversation on the phone" Chick usually mean that you want to break up with her. My ex once ran up to me after 20 minutes of such an SMS and began to explain the image that it's not like I think ... (hit the table - a scissors answered the call). What I do like to have you meet with her? You tell her you talked about the rules and that she said she is able to give you a relationship based on honesty and trust estimates. In addition, you remind her that she said that she can give you such a relationship. You say it if you want to be with her because she is an exceptional woman, but if you overdo it you will have to leave her. Showing a woman that her leave if you will be doing something wrong is a wonderful thing. Even if the girl you say "ok - it go away," you can reply, "I want to be honest with you and say what I think, if we will respect our principles we can be happy - it also depends on you what will be" However, if the girl next overdoing it you tell her that you leave and not return to it until you earn it yourself. (I left on the ground from a woman ... after a month out broke and started writing me he was sorry and wants to try me again). Remember that it is better to leave than to become her toy.
BEING romantic - being different.
Do not be like all the guys whom she has so far met. Be different. Take it in other places, do with it what else, tell her something else. Also show that you can be romantic. Romance is not buying tons of flowers, romantic not to speak at every opportunity I love you. Romanticism get as doing things that she does not expect. Take her into the shower, light the candles when you love, drink from her glass of champagne, tell her about your fantasies like the romantic film where love at the setting sun ... Such things are for women unusual and such things You shall make that a woman will be a lot more respect and regarded as someone special.
The commonality INVESTMENT
As a result there is always such a process as investing in the relationship. And on one side and the other. Both people to try to relationship lasted and remained at a level that allows it to partners happy. By. common rules should look like that and the guy and girl try to just investing 50 to 50. (I do not mean it to invest money just to invest efforts). However, women often impose certain illusions guys that say that the guy should try harder, solicit and fly the girl, "if he cares" If you start to follow so you might run into a huge trap and bring in that relationship starts to crumble.
When you pick up a girl you need to invest more ... you have more to say, come out with an initiative like. I think I remember the lessons I've talked about this so gradually when you meet a girl give her box to be able to say more, try to invest in that your relationship. The same is true in the relationship. REMEMBER! Never invest in a woman more effort than she gives you. There is a rule 30/70 if you give of yourself 30% of it will be for you to go and give you 70% But if you give 70% of its effort to your relationship then she will give you only 30% and thus will deem you for the poor and use it to manipulate. Also, if you're already in a relationship and the situation is developing that does not try any more than she did.
Women sometimes use also the trap which I often I developed. At the beginning sought to me quite strongly, they invest a lot in a relationship for me fabulously sweet and nice. guy get used to it, it is him well and then the girl used cold. It begins to get less interested, getting you even a little olewać. There is no desire for sex and invents other strange things ... It is as if your girl gave her a taste of the carrots you and when you eat it more that you be away from your mouth. Do you understand what I mean? A lot of guys on this takes and when she does this little game they are flying behind her doing almost all things were like they used to. I'll tell you here a very important thing. If the girl tried hard but managed to turn the situation so that it is as if indifferent and you're behind you fly and want to do everything to be as it used to for some reason in the girl's eyes, you become a loser and staff lose you almost all the attention.
(This little game that you have described can be used on the woman. First effort after a delicate thaw)
SEX
But it's never ever let themselves be manipulated in a relationship. And certainly not by sex. If you allow yourself to it to the girl she used sex to manipulate you to stand in her eyes a terrible guy. Babes often when they want something to compel the guy shoot light Foch (offended). when you ask what's going on, they usually say that about anything. And when a girl tells you that nothing happened but in spite of this you see her strange behavior then you can be sure that tries to manipulate. Make the call to order. In such situations I mean. I'm glad you shoot sulks like a little girl. As you begin to behave normally then we'll talk. I go out without looking back. As I wrote sticks are offended when they catch you trying to punish bar sex. You should be aware of the fact that they want sex just as much as we do. (And maybe more) When a girl uses sex to manipulate you tell her something like that. "You know that sex is not a bargaining chip for me, I want it if you want it ... if you do not want to understand. And by the way I am sorry that you are trying to use these things to me steer"
UNDERSTANDING TRUST HONESTY RESPECT
Being in a relationship remember that woman to feel agreement between you. Talk with her about many things on the foot emotional. Never be afraid to talk about their emotions. Do not argue with a woman. If she starts fights and has some claim to tell you ... Yeah baby you're right - I'm terrible guy, whatever you think of me you're right. And what she's such a text could you tell? That you're a pig? "I'm so pig-you're right," Arguing with women is the worst thing you can do. Never getting into quarrels.
It is very important therefore trust. Do you want a woman to trust you? Trust her back first. She will reciprocate your feelings. Tell her you trust very much and believe in it. She reward. Besides say that you do not trust. Women are likely to be defiant.
Another important thing is sincerity. Once, my girlfriend asks me. "Where were you and what were you doing last night?". I'm saying that I was at a party and hit on girls. She incredulously asks me if picked up. This I tell her that the 6. Women are masters at deceiving herself and was once do not believe in what its saying.
Regarding Respect: There are two kinds of respect. Respect is caused by fear and reverence caused by admiration. If you want the girl you respected and also respect it matters lest she feared that if she's gone from something transplant. In addition Reach out so she could admire you for your determination, for your rules for your true confidence and for your other life.
IN CONCLUSION
Remember these things, they are very important. Remember also about very important things that is consistency. Stay consistent with what you say. Do not be a hypocrite. if you say something stick to it. Remember that once you turn aside a woman will be aware of that turn aside a second time. Be aware that women have hundreds of tests, manipulation and games prepared for it to see if you really are such a great guy or just pretend like that. Every relationship teaches you something. I read what I wrote you have the opportunity to learn from my mistakes. Remember that a strong frame is something that will always be a woman attracted to you and that is what is what will keep you defended against its games featuring. I wish you good luck in relationships with women. I have to tell you yet that every woman is different. Maintaining the compound one can be very easily with other very difficult. A lot depends on what kind of woman hit, and these types are hundreds of thousands.
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